Aaah, "Cyber Bullies".

People that can invade your "cyber life" and bully you over your internets! They call you "FAT", "RETARDED", "FAGGOT" etc. (i am aware of the correct vernacular, but bear with me), and that actually OFFENDS/HURTS you. It makes you feel vulnerable and exposed.

My honest opinion? You DO have a problem. But it's not "Cyber Bullies". You're afflicted with a dangerous sickness.

STUPIDITY.

Did i offend you? Good. Now let me elaborate.

Anyone who ever got bullied for real, knows how that feels. I myself have been physically beaten, insulted and pushed around. THAT sucks. THAT is a real problem.

Now "Cyber Bullying", as a concept, is ay JOKE. Here is why.


1. One must be physically present in the vicinity of an ABUSER, to consider himself BULLIED.

Being called names over the computer means that you're dealing with a very bored person, a TROLL, if you will. Those are people that don't care who you are, what you do, and will take random stabs at your insecurities for fun, mainly because they're insecure themselves. It's called PROJECTION.

Should that offend you? Not really. They're just killing time.

Why? Well, first of all, you're selected by chance. It's nothing personal. They have nothing against YOU because they don't actually KNOW you most of the time. Second, they will do ANYTHING to make you feel uncomfortable and manipulate you into doing things they want you to do.

How can you prevent this? Easy. Stop taking them seriously. Just say, "Fuck Off, little troll".

Do not explain yourself, do not try to reason with these people, do not get trapped into a "flame war". DO NOT FEED TEH TROLLZ.

That is basic knowledge


2. One must posses a very low self esteem and/or poor self image .

Not surprising, these are the people that keep whining about being bullied.

Why? Because most of us dismiss the trolls without giving them a second thought. The people whining, are mostly attention whores themselves, who, surprisingly enough, fail to realize that there are several kinds of attention they can draw onto themselves.

The Kids. Ah, the kids. The kids that get bullied over the web however, are, primarily victims of poor parental education. Parents might feel offended by this, but it's true.

They don't pay attention to their kids enough, don't try or haven't tried to instill proper values, in short, SUCK as PARENTS. Now, mind you, i realize that there are a myriad of problems that concern a modern-day parent. But not finding the time to teach their kids some good moral and ethical concepts, is foolish and inconsiderate.

You are your children's role models. You are what they eventually WILL become. Every bad choice they do falls onto you. Educate them properly.

Also, on another note, it is a fun fact that children/adolescents comprise about 90% of the bully population.

See how bad parenting works?


3. One must suffer from some psychological disorder, to take the words that spew out of these people's mouths SERIOUSLY.

Sometimes, the sufferer has actually decided to do bad things to him/herself BEFORE the "assailant" started "bullying" him/her.

Again, I must stress the cold, hard, FACT. 9/10 trolls, don't know ANYTHING about their victims. They don't care about your problems and they sure as hell don't care if you do something stupid to yourselves.

This hype is, in my opinion, created by people that can't handle guilt and the loss of their loved ones. They are emotionally distraught and they blame everyone but themselves. It's entirely understandable. They're in mourning. God forbid anyone suffers the loss of a loved one. It's one of the worst experiences imaginable. But they shouldn't expect someone else to claim responsibility for THEIR mistakes.


So there.

I said some things. You can hate me because of the things i said, agree with me, scorn me, whatever...


That's the truth as i see it.